HOW TO ATTRACT YOUR CRUSH
in order to attract someone you should be able to understand their needs ,their likes, interests and everything.If you are attracted to someone it doesn’t necessarily mean that they will be attracted to you too, but it also doesn’t mean that they never will be.Just remember don’t force yourself on anyone .
Crushes and infatuations are a part of life.All of us experience them all the time.Sometimes, it’s just a little crush that lasts a few minutes after a fleeting glimpse on the street. And at other times, it’s a bigger crush that stays in your heart for several months, especially if you work or study together.
Getting a crush on someone or falling for them is the easy part.But getting their attention and making them fall for you?Well, that’s definitely tricky.
So lets learn few tips which could definitely help in getting your crush notice you and like you back.
1. Work on being the best you as this will attract them
If you want someone to be attracted to you (the real you, in a lasting way), you’ll need to be attractive first. You do this by being the best possible version of yourself, bringing out all the qualities about you that are good and taking problems head on.
- Learn fun skills. Learn the sort of fun skills that you always wanted to have. This will make you happy but it will also make you more interesting to other people. Passion and talent is attractive, and this will go a long way towards making other people like you.
- Help others. No one wants to be with a real jerk. Show your crush that you are a kind, wonderful person by helping others. You can help your friends and the people around you, or you can help your community by volunteering!
- Relax. Be funny. Have a good sense of humor. Don’t sweat every little problem. And don’t panic every time you talk to your crush. People want to be with someone that helps them relax, so if you seem wound up all the time, you’re going to have a harder time attracting them.
2.Keep yourself clean and look nice.
Stay fresh-smelling by showering regularly and wearing clean clothes. Don’t forget deodorant! Smelling bad can really turn a lot of people away, even if you have a great personality. Wear nice looking clothes and take care of your hair and skin. You don’t have to dress like a movie star, or even wear brand name clothes. Just wear what looks good on you and that’s really all that people will notice.
3. Show off your kind side which will attract them
Don’t be cocky or arrogant while trying to catch your crush’s attention. Meanness is a trait both genders dislike to see in a prospective mate. If your crush assumes you’re mean, you’d lose a big chance of dating them. Be helpful to people, and be friendly, especially when your crush is around.
If you want to get your crush to notice you and like you, you have to find a way to make them feel awed by you. If you have any qualities that are worth showing off or displaying discreetly, make sure you flaunt it.
4. Be a good friend and spend time together
People want to date someone who can basically be one of their best friends. You want to get along really well! Show them that you can fill this role by being a good friend to them. Support them when they’re having problems and help them to be their best self by encouraging them to reach for the stars.
You can’t get their attention and help them get to know you if you never spend time together! Hang out, either alone or in groups of friends (groups is better, in the beginning), so that they can see how fun you are to be around. You can go to movies, play games at the arcade, or go to special events like local concerts.
5. Look good around your crush ignorer to attract them.
Well dressed people who groom themselves always stick out of the crowd like a happy sore thumb. And that’s a good thing. Work out, look fit and try to look your attractive best, especially when you know you’d bump into your crush. Every time you get an appreciative glance from your crush, the bigger the odds are that they’ll like you back.
6. Show your availability.
Don’t make your crush think that you’re into someone else. Make sure to project that you are single and you are looking to date. Don’t flirt with other people too much and don’t spend a ton of your time with someone of their same gender.
7. Flirt with her and touch her
Start showing your interest in your crush by flirting with them. They may not be asking you out or showing an interest because they don’t realize that you like them, so start dropping hints. Just don’t start flirting too early on. You need to establish a basic friendship first, if you want to help guarantee success.
Not there! Jeez. A gentle touch to the shoulder or forearm (or even their hand or face if you’re feeling bold), can show them your interest or even really get them to feel that spark! These are very intimate, affectionate gestures and their intent is difficult to mistake. Do it casually, in conversation, and definitely not randomly. You’ll need an excuse, or it’s going to seem forced.
8. Ask them out.
If respond that they like you to, or even if you want to skip that last step and go straight for this one, you might just have to ask them out yourself. This responsibility is usually going to fall on the guys, but there’s nothing wrong with girls taking the lead! Find some time alone and find out once and for all if you have a chance.
Don’t sweat rejection. If they just don’t feel the same way they they aren’t the right person for you! You’ll find your special someone. It just takes time.
Hope this will help you in finding your love once.